JadeRScammdMe

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What makes me horny
JadJade / Pau relentlessly scammed me for 1.5 years. I ended up giving her a lot of tokens for nothing, buying her studio lights, a rug, curtains, .... She wasted my time and caused so much unneeded stress. She used emotional and psychological manipulation to con me. I tried to treat her well. When she didn't feel well, I paid for a 45 minute private for her to just lay down and rest. I bought her studio lights, rugs, .... She tried to make me believe there was something special between us and she constantly told me about the horrible things in her life (but never about the good stuff - which I saw on her instagram account). She told me she couldn't afford to have her studio lights and refrigerator on at the same time, but she said it didn't matter because she couldn't afford food to put in the refrigerator. The stories she told often conflicted with each other. A few days later, she told me about her smartwatch with a sleep tracker and I could she had had her nails done and had bought pretty, new clothes. When I stopped giving her tokens she sent a meme calling me a "Viejo"(Old man). In the end, she told me everything she told me was a lie and that most of the time, someone else was writing her. She said because I was married, visiting her was cheating on my wife. I have the transcripts of most of the conversations below and many screenshots as evidence.

Note: She has gone by the name Jade Rose, Sweet Pau, Pau Becker and PevertlyGirl. I'll use the name Jade when referring to her.

From the start, I told Jade/Pau that I was happily married and that I didn't want her to do anything that she didn't want to do. When she was sick, I paid for a long private for her to rest. She said I treated her better than anyone else and told me 'Te Amo'. I told her because of my situation, I didn't need this and I asked her if she says this to others. She said she doesn't and wouldn't say it just because a client wanted her to. I had my suspicions. I created a fake id and soon she told the fake id the same thing. I asked her about it and she denied it vehemently three times. I told her I was the fake id.

She painted a picture of her life being constantly bad. She never mentioned the good times, which I knew she had because I saw her "pool day" pic on social media. When she got the studio lights, she told me she had never gotten a Christmas present before. I knew a little about her mother from her talking about her and I knew she was the type of woman that no matter what was going to make sure her kids had Christmas and birthday presents. I also knew that as pretty as she was, she had to have boyfriends that showered her with gifts on Christmas. I asked her about this. She had no response.


She asked me to pay for a recurring gym membership because she was lonely because she had no friends and that no guy wanted to be with a cam girl. It was the stupidest thing I heard to say that no guy wanted to be with a cam girl. I said nothing because it was an obvious lie and arguing with her is a worthless endeavor that will waste so much time. She told me the rate. I said it was more than double the cost of a good gym in the US in a big city. She said she got the rate wrong and gave me a much lower rate. It was an obvious cam scam that I nearly fell vicitm to.

I got tired of the endless lies and the scams but I still felt sorry for her, so I stopped visiting her but would send her tokens every week to help her. When Covid came I sent her 1,000 tokens to help her mother. She then told me it was ok to visit, which I did but I kept them short, because she was comfortable enough with me to let her real side out and it was very rude. I would come to her room, say some nice things about her, giver her some tokens and after 10 to 15 minutes tell her I had to go. I thought I was being nice. She said I was the police and berated me about it. I told her I'm very busy at night. I told her again that I've had enough of her negativity and just to leave me alone.

She reached out to me again though. She told me she needed to get back into the Bonga Top100 and to do that she needed to make 5,000 tokens. I knew she was asking me to give her tokens but I said nothing except that with her beauty I'm sure she would have no issue.

She then reached out to a few weeks later saying she was in deseperate need of a loan to pay her rent. I knew a loan to her would never be repaid, that there would always be some excuse. I responded back to her a week later and I said I hoped she was ok. She was furious. She said because I never paid her rent that I never cared about her. I told her I knew it was a scam as was getting back into the BC Top 100 was a scam because she was never officially in the BC Top 100. There is an official BC Top 100 list of past winners and she was never in any of them. She told me I didn't know how it worked. I let her know I knew she wasn't a past winner.

She then told me that everything she told me was a lie and that most of the time someone else was writing the messages. She also chastised me for being married and visiting her.

I saw other clients post in chat things that make me believe they were scammed. One client posted in chat, "My credit card is at it's limit. I'm trying to get another one". He had visited her so many times and I'm sure he was a victim of hers. Another client posted "'I thought that's what you wanted. You said you wanted more." She told me he had fallen in love with her through no fault of hers. She also said she couldn't help that so many clients fall in love with her.

Send me a message, and I'll send a picture of the Amazon order and many messages as proof. The information I shared is just the tip of the iceberg of the lies and scams she told.



*********** Highlights of Messages ***********

Sweetxxxpau: And I mean don't confuse what I do with other clients. ... does not mean that for them I feel something sentimental or that I am in love with them as I am with you.

4/25/20, 11:58 AM - Pau: Can you do me an urgent favor
4/25/20, 11:58 AM - Pau: If it were not urgent I would not ask you
4/25/20, 11:59 AM - Pau: Can I count on you?

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>>> 7/20/20, 1:54 PM - Pau: Things have changed. ... Between us the love part has already died. ...
********** I TOLD HER FROM THE START THERE WAS NO LOVE - I"M MARRIED **************


7/30/20, 6:40 PM - Pau: My pc was damaged
7/30/20, 6:40 PM - Pau: And I haven't been able to work

8/3/20, 2:39 PM - Pau: I will try to work with the laptop that I used to have
8/3/20, 2:39 PM - Pau: To make money
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: And to be able to pay for the pc repair
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: What worries me is that I stop working for 2 weeks
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: And the page is downgraded
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: I need to score at least 50 points in Bonga
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: To recover the days I don't work
8/3/20, 2:42 PM - Pau: But getting 50 points is difficult
8/3/20, 2:42 PM - Pau: I would have to get 5000 tokens this week
8/3/20, 2:43 PM - Pau: For the page to reposition me in a closer position
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau: 100th place
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau: My internet router also broke
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau: It's like a bad streak that I have
8/3/20, 2:45 PM - Pau: Maybe bad luck


8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: I'm writing to you because I don't know who else to turn to
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: But this time I don't have anyone else who can help me
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: I owe the rent of the house where I am living
8/18/20, 8:07 AM - Pau: What are the chances that you can lend them to me



*** Trying to tell me the relationship meant something more to her
9/9/20, 2:58 PM - Paula: Our thing was to enjoy our moments alone and our moments to have fun and laugh at our nonsense. Ours was something of a camera but it got out of control.


9/9/20, 3:06 PM - Paula: I asked you a favor several days ago and you never said anything about it and I resolved on my own
9/9/20, 3:07 PM - Paula: I wrote to you when I need you most and you never told me anything about.
9/9/20, 3:12 PM - Paula: So you don't care about me. If you did, you would have asked me.
9/9/20, 3:31 PM - Paula: I needed to make 5000 tokens so that the Bonga system would position me in the position before 100 to be able to make more money


9/9/20, 4:52 PM - Paula: the person who wrote you "I love you" was not me
9/9/20, 4:53 PM - Paula: It literally wasn't me
9/9/20, 4:56 PM - Paula: Sometimes I was not the one who wrote


9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: I never said I was in the top of bc
9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: I said enter at 100
9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: But I never said I was at the top
9/15/20, 11:03 AM - Pau: I didn't mention the 5000 tokens for you to give me
9/15/20, 11:03 AM - Pau: I was just explaining what I had to do to upload the camscore on the page
9/15/20, 11:06 AM - Pau: And yes, I asked you for the rent. Because I didn't know what to do. But I did not pressure you, nor did I demand of you, much less harassed you to give me money. And I didn't even tell you to give it to me. I borrowed it. When I had the money again I would give it back to you


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>>>> 9/15/20, 11:45 AM - Pau: Most of the time I lied to you
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*** Another client that was conned by her. He posted this in public
sweetxxxpau: We were good friends but you confused things and got carried away by emotions
herClient: : yes I did, I thought it was what you wanted.





******************* More context aound the messages

---- Says everyone falls in love with her - its not her fault
sweetxxxpau: no es mi culpa que todos se enamoren de mi
sweetxxxpau: simplemente soy amable


*** Told her be honest or don't tell it to me.
1/28/20, 11:19 AM - B: I didn't have to know everything about you. You could have told me little or nothing. But what you told me I needed to know was true. It is the real you or nothing at all. I'm sure the real one would have been delightful. My time is too precious to waste in lies and games.

*** Told me that she was in love with me
Sweetxxxpau: Y me refiero a que no confundas lo que hago con otros clientes. Por ejemplo si los trato adorable y tierna. O alguna acción parecida a lo que hago contigo no significa que por ellos sienta algo sentimental o que este enamorada de ellos como lo estoy de ti
Sweetxxxpau: And I mean don't confuse what I do with other clients. For example if I treat them adorable and tender. Or some action similar to what I do with you does not mean that for them I feel something sentimental or that I am in love with them as I am with you.


*** Conned me into buying her studion lighting. Told her several times to buy silver spray paint to make a lighting umbrella but she coudln't do it right, buying the wrong paint etc. I realized much later this was a con "playing dumb" - because she's not dumb, she's very smart
12/5/19, 12:30 PM - B: 2 - your softbox can be converted but it's small. Your better off buying an umbrella for lighting. They tend to be cheaper. You can buy an umbrella and spray paint the inside silver
12/5/19, 12:36 PM - Pau: Me la puedes hacer tu hehehehe ????☺
[12/5/19, 12:36 PM - Pau: You can do it for me hehehehe ????☺]
12/5/19, 12:38 PM - B: No. The red is on the outside. It would be better to have a neutral color. It is the silver the light is bouncing off on. Your light should aim at the silver. Preferably a speckled silver to break up and soften the light.
12/5/19, 2:29 PM - B: Silver spray paint to paint the inside
-- Order placed on Amazon on Dec 22, 2019 - ORDER # 113-4518935-0948241.


*** Tried to bring me back in with an urgent issue
4/25/20, 11:58 AM - Pau: Me puedes hacer un favor urgente
4/25/20, 11:58 AM - Pau: Si no fuera urgente no te lo pediría
4/25/20, 11:59 AM - Pau: Puedo contar contigo?
4/25/20, 11:58 AM - Pau: Can you do me an urgent favor
4/25/20, 11:58 AM - Pau: If it were not urgent I would not ask you
4/25/20, 11:59 AM - Pau: Can I count on you?
4/27/20, 1:19 PM - B: These things you ask of me are a way of luring me back. I need peace, quiet and a positive environment.


*** Public Chat Conversation with A Different Client that she misled
sweetxxxpau: eramos buenos amigos pero confundiste las cosas y te dejaste llevar por las emociones
sweetxxxpau: We were good friends but you confused things and got carried away by emotions

herClient: : yes I did, I thought it was what you wanted.
herClient: : I'll go I don't think you need me in your life.

sweetxxxpau: I told you from the first moment that there could be nothing between us

herClient: : I wish tiu the best sweetheart
herClient: : bye sweetheart!

sweetxxxpau:babyav And you got it. Days later you arrive and you are indifferent to me

herClient: : I won't bother you again!
herClient: : I would never do anything to hurt you

sweetxxxpau:babyav I hope everything goes well in your life
sweetxxxpau:babyav Take care
herClient: : bye sweetheart!







*** She tries to say we were in love, which I clarified we were never
7/20/20, 1:54 PM - Pau: Las cosas han cambiado. Yo no tengo necesidad de explicarte nada ahora. Entre nosotros la parte de amor ya murió. Solo queda una relación de amistad Y pues cliente modelo.
7/20/20, 1:54 PM - Pau: Things have changed. I have no need to explain anything to you now. Between us the love part has already died. There is only a friendship relationship left. And then a model client.

7/20/20, 2:17 PM - B: No sé de qué estás hablando de la parte del amor. Te lo dije desde el principio, la única mujer que he amado y que amaré es mi esposa. Aunque me cuidaste de una manera especial.
7/20/20, 2:17 PM - B: I don't know what you're talking about the love part. I told you from the beginning, the only woman I have ever loved and will love is my wife. Although you took care of me in a special way.

7/20/20, 2:19 PM - Pau: Lo se. Sé que amas a tu esposa. Y también sé que yo confundí las cosas en ese momento porque yo no tenía a nadie a mi lada que me quisiera y me demostrará cosas lindas como tú lo hacías. Pero ya recapacite y ahora lo veo todo claro
7/20/20, 2:19 PM - Pau: I know. I know you love your wife. And I also know that I confused things at that time because I did not have anyone around me who would love me and show me beautiful things like you did. But I thought about it and now I see everything clear


*** Tells me about her PC problems, trying to get me to buy her a new PC
7/30/20, 6:40 PM - Pau:La pc se me daño
7/30/20, 6:40 PM - Pau:Y no he podido trabajar
7/30/20, 6:40 PM - Pau: My pc was damaged
7/30/20, 6:40 PM - Pau: And I haven't been able to work


*** More problems she uses to try to con me
8/3/20, 2:39 PM - Pau:Para lograr hacer el dinero
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau:Y poder pagar la reparación de la pc
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau:Lo que me preocupa es que deje de trabajar por 2 semanas
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau:Y la pagina me bajan de rango
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau:Necesito hacerme mínimo 50puntos en Bonga
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau:Para recuperarme lo días que no trabaje
8/3/20, 2:42 PM - Pau:Pero hacer 50 puntos es difícil
8/3/20, 2:42 PM - Pau:Tendría que hacerme 5000 tokens esta semana
8/3/20, 2:43 PM - Pau:Para que la pagina me vuelva a pocisionar en un puesto más cercano
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau:Al puesto 100
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau:También se me daño el router de el internet
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau:Hoy fui a Movistar a que me cambiaran el equipo
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau:Y tarda 72 horas
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau:Es como una mala racha que tengo
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau:????
8/3/20, 2:45 PM - Pau:Tal vez mala suerte
8/3/20, 2:46 PM - Pau:Y justamente esto pasa cuando Bongacams ya había reconocido que yo estaba haciendo la cosas bien
8/3/20, 2:46 PM - Pau:Y la misma página que me ayudaba a subir más rápido
8/3/20, 2:46 PM - Pau:Pero con esto creo que ya no me van a ayudar hasta que vuelva a ganar dinero como lo estaba haciendo
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8/3/20, 2:39 PM - Pau: I will try to work with the laptop that I used to have
8/3/20, 2:39 PM - Pau: To make money
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: And to be able to pay for the pc repair
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: What worries me is that I stop working for 2 weeks
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: And the page is downgraded
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: I need to score at least 50 points in Bonga
8/3/20, 2:41 PM - Pau: To recover the days I don't work
8/3/20, 2:42 PM - Pau: But getting 50 points is difficult
8/3/20, 2:42 PM - Pau: I would have to get 5000 tokens this week
8/3/20, 2:43 PM - Pau: For the page to reposition me in a closer position
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau: 100th place
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau: My internet router also broke
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau: Today I went to Movistar to have my team changed
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau: And it takes 72 hours
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau: It's like a bad streak that I have
8/3/20, 2:44 PM - Pau:
8/3/20, 2:45 PM - Pau: Maybe bad luck
8/3/20, 2:46 PM - Pau: And this happens precisely when Bongacams had already recognized that I was doing things right
8/3/20, 2:46 PM - Pau: And the same page that helped me upload faster
8/3/20, 2:46 PM - Pau: But with this I think they will no longer help me until I earn money as I was doing again



*** Asked me to "lend" her money for rent
8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: Te escribo a ti por que no se a quién más recurrir
8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: Estoy en un situación crítica
8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: Ahora mismo yo estoy positiva a XXXXX
8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: Me he sentido muy mal estos días
8/18/20, 8:05 AM - Pau: No puedo respirar bien
8/18/20, 8:05 AM - Pau: Y no he podido trabajar
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: Siento mucha vergüenza
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: Porque ambos sabemos que yo nunca te he pedido que me ayudes
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: Pero esta vez no tengo a más nadie que me pueda ayudar
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: Debo el arriendo de la casa donde estoy viviendo
8/18/20, 8:07 AM - Pau: Y no tengo como pagarlo
8/18/20, 8:07 AM - Pau: Que posibilidades hay de que me los puedas prestar
8/18/20, 8:08 AM - Pau: Y cuando yo comience a trabajar te los pago
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8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: I'm writing to you because I don't know who else to turn to
8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: I am in a critical situation
8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: Right now I am positive for XXXXX
8/18/20, 8:04 AM - Pau: I have felt very bad these days
8/18/20, 8:05 AM - Pau: I can't breathe well
8/18/20, 8:05 AM - Pau: And I haven't been able to work
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: I'm very ashamed
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: Because we both know that I have never asked you to help me
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: But this time I don't have anyone else who can help me
8/18/20, 8:06 AM - Pau: I owe the rent of the house where I am living
8/18/20, 8:07 AM - Pau: And I have no way to pay it
8/18/20, 8:07 AM - Pau: What are the chances that you can lend them to me
8/18/20, 8:08 AM - Pau: And when I start working I pay you


*** Trying to tell me the relationship meant something more to her
9/9/20, 2:58 PM - Paula: Our thing was to enjoy our moments alone and our moments to have fun and laugh at our nonsense. Ours was something of a camera but it got out of control.


*** Mad because I didn't pay her salary or rent ***
9/9/20, 3:06 PM - Paula: I asked you a favor several days ago and you never said anything about it and I resolved on my own
9/9/20, 3:07 PM - Paula: I wrote to you when I need you most and you never told me anything about.
9/9/20, 3:09 PM - Paula: When I need you most you are never. You only appear when the storm has passed. I don't know what compassion you're talking about. You didn't help me and here I am alive and I still have a roof that covers my head
9/9/20, 3:12 PM - Paula: So you don't care about me. If you did, you would have asked me.

9/9/20, 3:20 PM - Paula: it was 99th out of 7,000 models. something had to be doing well to be in that position.
9/9/20, 3:31 PM - Paula: I needed to make 5000 tokens so that the Bonga system would position me in the position before 100 to be able to make more money

9/9/20, 4:38 PM - B: No need to waste my time on someone that doesn't give a damn about me
9/9/20, 4:39 PM - B: I appreciate the true you finally appearing
9/9/20, 4:39 PM - Paula: It's already night, you should go hehehe
9/9/20, 4:41 PM - B: I've waited a long time for you to be honest
9/9/20, 4:42 PM - Paula: Do you want a beer to celebrate? ????
9/9/20, 4:42 PM - Paula: ????????
9/9/20, 4:42 PM - Paula: Yeah! ????????
9/9/20, 4:43 PM - Paula: now you can go in peace
9/9/20, 4:43 PM - Paula: ????????????
9/9/20, 4:44 PM - Paula: I don't know why you are still here

*** 2020_09_09_The_True_Side_Of_Pau_2
9/9/20, 4:52 PM - Paula: the person who wrote you "I love you" was not me
9/9/20, 4:53 PM - Paula: It literally wasn't me
9/9/20, 4:56 PM - Paula: Sometimes I was not the one who wrote
9/10/20, 10:48 AM - B: I won't waste my time on someone that doesn't care
9/10/20, 10:48 AM - Sp: Exactly, go your way. I wish you the best. Goodbye


* In this conversation she tries to explain the lie about BC 100 and then ***admits to lying*** about almost everything
9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: Yo nunca dije que estaba en el top de bc
9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: Yo dije que entre a las 100
9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: Pero nunca dije que estaba en el top
9/15/20, 11:03 AM - Pau: Yo no mencioné los 5000 tokens para que me lo dieras
9/15/20, 11:03 AM - Pau: Solo te explicaba lo que tenía que hacer para poder subir el camscore en la página
9/15/20, 11:06 AM - Pau: Y si, te pedí para el alquiler. Porque no sabía qué hacer. Pero tampoco te presione, ni tampoco te exije y mucho menos te acosaba para que me dieras dinero. Y ni siquiera te dije que me lo regalaras te lo pedí prestado. Cuando tuviera de nuevo el dinero te lo devolvería
9/15/20, 11:19 AM - Pau: Pero con que moral vienes a estar molesto si al fin y al cabo usted esta casado
9/15/20, 11:45 AM - Pau: La mayoría de las veces te mentía
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9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: I never said I was in the top of bc
9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: I said enter at 100
9/15/20, 11:01 AM - Pau: But I never said I was at the top
9/15/20, 11:03 AM - Pau: I didn't mention the 5000 tokens for you to give me
9/15/20, 11:03 AM - Pau: I was just explaining what I had to do to upload the camscore on the page
9/15/20, 11:06 AM - Pau: And yes, I asked you for the rent. Because I didn't know what to do. But I did not pressure you, nor did I demand of you, much less harassed you to give me money. And I didn't even tell you to give it to me. I borrowed it. When I had the money again I would give it back to you
9/15/20, 11:19 AM - Pau: But with what morals do you come to be upset if at the end of the day you are married
9/15/20, 11:45 AM - Pau: Most of the time I lied to you








******************** The Story of Jade_rosse / Pau / Sweetxxxpau Scams
I thought she was a sweet girl that needed help, but she consistently lied and tried to scam me. I looked past this at first because I thought she had a rough life, and I hoped she would eventually learn to trust. I kept trying, but her dishonesty and scams made it more difficult, so I kept an arms-length relationship for a long time, giving her tokens, advice, and encouragement to help her but staying in her room only briefly, trying to balance helping her but not letting her taken advantage of me. She kept on with her lies and scams, and in the end, she crossed the line. I was very patient with her, but she went too far. I tell the story of what happened to prevent her from scamming others.

Note: Over the years, camming on various sites, she has gone by the names: Jade, Jade_Rosse, Pau, Paula, SweetPau, Sweetxxxpau, PervertlyGirl and others. I've only told in this story the parts I know were a lie and scam. She told me many other things that I won't disclose because they could be true, and I don't want to disclose any private information about her life. I only want to share the things I know to be part of her scams.

I met Pau/Jade in March of 2019 (she went by PervertlyGirl then). I was looking for entertainment, and she seemed cute and sweet. I was honest with her. I told her my age and that that I was happily married. I told her to never do anything that for me that would hurt her or that she didn't like.
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We did many privates & shows (see the list below), several pvts over 1hr. A few weeks after I met her, when she was online, she said she felt sick. I told her I wanted a PVT just for her to rest. She said she couldn't. I told her the customer was right and talked her into an hour long PVT were she remained clothed, and just rested, laying on the couch.
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Shortly aftewards, she said I treated her better than anyone else ever had. She asked for my wApp, which I've never used before. She messaged me, 'Te Amo'. I told her I didn't need that because I was married. I asked her if she says that to anyone else. She said she didn't, and she meant what she aid. She said she would never say it if she didn't mean it. When she worked at a restaurant, she told me the manager told her to say "Te Quiero" to clients to give bigger tips. She said she wouldn't. I was impressed. There were doubts in my mind though. She had said no one else was nice to her. I saw that Wacoxx and BradC were very nice to her.
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When she left the studio and worked from her home, I couldn't be there for her first-night camming in her new place. Later on three different occasions, she told me three different stories about her first-night camming in her new place and all three stories were incompatible with each other. I said nothing to her about this.
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Because of these things, I decided to see if she was telling the truth. I created a fake id (elCorazonVe) and went to her room. Within a few weeks she told the fake id "Te Amo". I asked her the next day if she ever told anyone else "Te Amo". She said "No". I asked her again. She said "NOOOOOOO". I asked her a third time. She said "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO". I told her I was elCorazoneVe. She gave me excuses on why she had to do it. She argued long and convincingly. She told me that I was the only one she's ever WhatsAppd with. I felt sorry for her and half believed her story about WhatsApp.
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She told me she was all by herself in a country that wasn't her home, with no family or friends. I told her she could easily find a boyfriend. She said she didn't want a boyfriend. I told her she could be honest, that I had a wife and she should have someone as well. She told me that boys don't want cam girls (I said nothing about this ridiculous statement).
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A few weeks later told me again she was very lonely. She said she wanted a meet people and make friends because she had no one. She said a gym membership would allow her to work out and meet people, but she couldn't afford it. I felt sorry for her. I asked about it. She told me it was $50 per month. I told her that was more than double the cost of a good gym in the US, and she wasn't living in a big city. She told me she got the rate wrong and that it was only $30 per month. I'm sure it was just another of her scams, and she was trying to get a membership for her and her boyfriend. I felt bad, and I was on the brink of helping her, but I wised up at the last minute.
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Pau was doing better with her cam site. She and I were doing a lot of PVTs (see the image of PVTs). She moved into a bigger and much nicer apartment.
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She told me she was now busy with projects. She didn't have time to chat. One time I texted her to check on her, and she said she was asleep and sent a picture of her sleeping. She thought it was cute. I thought it was stupid and insulting. (Later, she would tell me some "mean" guy was texting and taking the pictures, and it wasn't her. This was the stupidest excuse I've ever heard, especially if you knew how she described this guy. By her past description of him, he would have reacted very differently).
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After this, I stopped doing privates with her. I still checked on her, gave her tokens, and said nice things to her because I still felt sorry for her, but I kept more of a distance. She got mad that I wouldn't do PVTs. When I visited her I asked how she was doing. She sent me a meme that said said "Tranquilo viejo" (calm old man). I asked her to send it to me to keep as a memory of her. She said it was a mistake, that she said she didn't know how it got sent. I told her I found it hard to believe that it got accidentally sent and that I believe she knew exactly what she was doing.
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She later wrote me she couldn't pay for food or rent because companies in Colombia won't hire Venezuelans. She said the companies told her immediately, "Go away. We don't want you here". I told her I felt sorry for her and that was very unfair to her. A few weeks later, I told her that I read that Venezuelans were taking many jobs from Colombians. She said it was true because the Colombians were lazy and didn't want to work as hard or for as little money as the Venezuelans. She said she knew a bakery that hired almost exclusively Venezuelans. This completely contradicted what she said before, but I didn't say anything.
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She wrote me later telling me what a horrible life she had. How everything was bad and had gone to "mierda(****)." She didn't know, but I was a picture of her on Instagram having a great time, jumping out of a pool with a huge smile on her face. The picture was titled "Pool Day". (see pic)
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Even knowing what I did, I still thought she needed help. I didn't visit her because I didn't want her negativity. Instead, I sent her some tokens each week to help her without visiting her. When Covid came, I sent a lot of tokens to help her and her mother because they were having a tough time.
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She started writing and saying nice things to me. She apologized for the way she acted before and said she appreciated how good I was to her. I did a few more pvts with her. I saw in her room that she needed help. Her bed was made of shipping crates. Her studio light was a bare bulb and the electric cable for it had exposed wires. I gave her advice on building her own studio lights. I told her to get an umbrella and highly reflective silver spray paint. She sent me a picture of an umbrella and said she bought gray spray paint because that's all they had. I was frustrated that it was so hard and difficult to help her. I bought & shipped her studio lights, the white rug she's on and other things to help her room and cam page. (See pic Amazon order). It wasn't until much later that I figured out she had dupped me. It's a classic scam maneuver. Pretend that you don't know how to do something to get someone else to do it or buy it for you. In hindsight, I knew that she's very smart and the spray paint mixup was a clever trick. I told her specifically before it had to be silver paint. She played dumb to sucker me into playing the hero to save the day and it worked perfectly for her. Even though I was cautious from the start, she still scammed me.
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She had many times before many issues, several of which were computer issues. (see attached pic). I have enough computer experience to ask about the issues. I believe these were just clever schemes to try to get me to send her money. I believe she conned a previous client into buying her a computer.
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I continued to visit her for only 15 to 20 minutes, say nice things to her, and give her some tokens to help her out. This continued for months.
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She later messaged me wanting to know if she was standing naked in front of me, would I cheat on my wife and have sex with her. I told her I wouldn't cheat on my wife. She got furious. She told me how great her other client was and the things he would for to her. She said he would buy her a plane ticket to visit her. I told her I heard enough about how great her other clients were.
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I stopped visiting Pau. She later messaged me and said she couldn't talk later because she would be "busy and hot" that night. I could tell that she wanted to ask about it, so I did because I was curious. She told me she was going to f&*k this married guy. She described how the night would proceed, what she was going to do to him, ... and she sent me an audio of her moaning. I told her to leave me in peace. I told her she thought it bothered me, but I didn't care what she did with others. That was her business.
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I didn't talk to her for a long time. I told her I wanted to help her, but I couldn't take any more of her negativity, lies, and scams.
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I did message her on her birthday and gave her some tokens. The conversation was short but pleasant. She then messaged me a few weeks later that she couldn't earn money because she was ill. She needed to get in the top 100 at BC again. She said she was in the top 43 before and that she needed to make 5,000 tokens in one week to get back up there. I knew this was her way of hinting that she wanted me to pay. Instead, I told her with her beauty, I'm sure she would make her goal.
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Several weeks later, she messaged me she needed help paying her rent. She asked if I could loan her the money. I messaged her but never mentioned her request to pay for her rent. She said because I wouldn't pay her rent that I never cared for her. That if I truly cared for her, that I would fight for her and pay her rent. I told her I didn't respond about her rent because of the top 100 BC conversation and that I knew that she was lying to me again. I said I checked, and she had never been in the top 100 BC. (In fairness, she was at #43 for a few minutes, but she was never an official BC top 100 winner. BC has an official list of past winners that anyone can check.)
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I saw a guy that I thought was nice because of his name. I sympathized with him, and I didn't want him to be scammed, so I tried to warn him. I never told him I knew her. All I said was that someone as pretty as her had to have a boyfriend. He told her, then Pau messaged me. She was outraged. She said that she hated me, everything she told me was a lie and that I disrespected my wife by visiting her from the very first time.
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Jade / Pau will tell you that she never asked for a single token. She only asked sometimes to "borrow" money. She knows the art of master manipulation, how to get things without ever asking. She knows how to describe a situation, how to purposely fail at something to make a man sympathize and want to play the hero. Some of the things she said would be absolutely heart breaking if they were true. She told me she had never gotten a Christmas present before. I told her I found that hard to believe because she described her mother many times as a very good woman and from what I know of her mother I know she would make sure that she had a Christmas present. I also know the men in her life would have gotten her a Christmas present as well. When she said this, I told her there was know way I belived she never got a Christmas present before. She quickly changed the subject. There were many other things she said that pulled on one's heart strings. But as she said in the end, almost everything she said was a lie.
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In the end I had enough. I tried to help what I thought I was a sweet girl in need of help. I encoutered instead someone who relentless scammed and wasted my time. She insulted me for being older, for being married, which she knew from day one but waited a year and a half to tell me after she got many of my tokens, time, lights, etc. She told me many times she had changed and grown and was a better person now. Over a year and a half, the only change I saw was that she got better and better at lying, scamming, and manipulating. I know I'm not the first she conned, and I don't believe I'll be the last.
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I can never get back the time she wasted, but I can warn others to help them avoid the same fate.
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*** Others posted in her public chat:.
Wacox... said, "I ran the limit on my credit card. I'm trying to get another". She stopped talking to him shortly afterward.

BradC... said in public, "I thought you wanted more." He stopped visiting her after this.








------------------------- List of PVTs with Jade / Pau & I ----------------------------
*** She also goes by Jade_Rosse, Sweetxxpau, pervertlygirl, Pau_becker, ...


2020
03/25 13 minutes
1/03 31 minutes
1/03 30 minutes

2019
12/22 over 26 minutes
11/15 1 hour 10 minutes
11/12 43 minutes
11/12 23 minutes
9/27 46 minutes
9/27 19 minutes
9/27 24 minutes
9/27 17 minutes
9/24 36 minutes
9/20 26 minutes
9/20 9 minutes
7/24 20 minutes
7/24 40 minutes
7/16 28 minutes
7/06 34 minutes
7/05 35 minutes
7/05 16 minutes
7/05 22 minutes
6/29 14 minutes
6/29 55 minutes
6/28 32 minutes
6/28 24 minutes
6/22 26 minutes
6/06 47 minutes
6/06 25 minutes
6/06 4 minutes
5/30 25 minutes
5/30 26 minutes
5/30 1 hour 31 minutes
5/28 10 minutes
5/28 3 minutes
5/28 13 minutes
5/28 6 minutes
5/28 1 hour 23
5/28 1 hour 11
5/26 40 minutes
5/21 39 minutes
5/17 11 minutes
5/16 28 minutes
5/16 13 minutes
5/16 47 minutes
5/16 26 minutes
5/16 45 minutes
5/15 22 minutes
5/13 27 minutes
5/13 19 minutes
5/09 51 minutes
5/09 14 minutes
5/08 17 minutes
5/07 26 minutes
5/07 9 minutes
5/07 20 minutes
5/07 32 minutes
5/05 20 minutes
5/05 20 minutes
5/05 20 minutes
4/27 1 hour 15 minutes
4/26 1 hour minutes
4/26 5 minutes
4/25 50 minutes
4/25 8 minutes
4/24 4 minutes
4/24 50 minutes
4/24 47 minutes
4/21 23 minutes
4/20 1 hour 5 minutes
4/17 1 hour 24 minutes
4/17 48 minutes
4/14 47 minutes
4/14 38 minutes
4/13 13 minutes
4/11 42 minutes
4/11 1 hour 11 minutes
4/11 41 minutes
4/09 48 minutes
4/05 44 minutes
03/21 20 minutes

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